Sex Games in a Relationship: To bring or to not to bring

Ask any sex expert and he or she will list well over a hundred reasons why sex games are good for couples. But this same question has been vocally dismissed and fiercely argued against by some narrow minded people. These people believe that sex games are marketing gimmicks of self-acclaimed ‘sexperts’ who make money by conning innocent couples who are falling out of love or are trying to rev up their sex life. Here’s an un-opinionated case for and against sex games for couples who are wondering if they should or should not buy sex games:

The case for:

Every couple will agree that a couple’s sex life can lull after few years. People may find sex becomes boring or routine. Expensive vacations and adult movies resorted to by middle-aged couples are testimony to this. Some couples, due to boring sex, also fall out of love and cheat on their partners. Sex games bring these couples closer by bringing excitement, mystery and adventure in partners by fulfilling their fantasies, changing their routine and building anticipation. Sex games infuse sexy fun into any relationship and can help to bring couples closer.

Sex games are not dirty or sleazy; and are they are not just for kinky people. Sex games keep couples looking forward to coming home, to fantasise about how their evenings will turn out, to look back at what happened last evening the next day at the office and grin mischievously. Sex games have positive effects on many aspects of life; the happiness and satisfaction of a good sex life becomes apparent in almost everything a person does.

The case against:

Most ‘ordinary’ closed minded people flinch at the slightest mention of kinky experimentation. They feel it can be a scary and harmful practice that may lead to pain and torture. Sex games are thought to eventually lead to punishment or discipline games. Some also argue that sex games are mere gimmicks of sex experts who wish to sell their sleazy books or endorse sex toys and equipment. Some people also believe that eventually sex games become boring too.

Well, honestly, a sex game played too long or too often can become boring but there are enough sex games and new ideas floating on the internet to keep a couple occupied for a lifetime!